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 Stop Child Abuse! at 21:39
I shared the common types of child abuse here and my personal child abuse story at here.
Once again, i'm writing this article hoping all the bloggers or blog walkers will see these post. Please write yours too in order to support this campaign! Children are precious lives and gift from gods.
We love life. Aren't you? Why wont you stop abusing your child but love them more? How can you beat them, kick them, yell at them or torturing them emotionally? Is it that seeing them in the scared situation, you would feel better? Is it that there are no other ways to release your own emotional but doing physical abuse on them?
Please stop any act of abusing your own child or other peoples kids. I hope in future there will be no more news reports on child get hurt because hitting or beating by an adult, no more child abuse case please!!!
Did you know that an average of 7 children in Malaysia suffered abuse every day in 2008, and these were only the reported cases? Many more experience abuse in silence and behind closed doors. Like all children, they too have a right to a happy childhood, free of abuse. Abuse robs a child of their health, development and dignity. It can also leave invisible scars on children, their families and society that last lifetimes, if not generations. You can become a Campaigner for Children by helping to create more awareness to end child abuse in Malaysia. Yeah, i'm helping to voice out now! :) visit this site for more information!!! R E M E M B E R!!
You can do your part to help and make a difference: • By learning more about abuse.
• By talking about it and raising awareness.
• By asking questions and staying alert.
• By minimising opportunities for abuse.
• By getting involved and reporting abuse or any suspicion of abuse GET ON BOARD & GET INVOLVED!!
Labels: Awareness
Stop Child Abuse! at 21:19
I was talking about this last week. Just in case you din read it, please read it here!
Today i'll just share a personal child abuse stories. I never thought that it actually happens in real life around me. There is one day i was reading the newspaper like usual.. I heard the my mum and my grandma were gossipping. Guess what, one of my relatives was send to police station because of abusing her child. I was curious as i really could not understand how can she do that to her own child??
I listened the conversation among my mum and grandma. Later, i know the reason she abusing the young little girl is because she was not a boy. Hmm, confusing? For your information, she gave birth 3 children and all were girls. She was hoping to get a baby boy but failed. And she gets depressed then she committed child abuse to her youngest daughter. Sad case.
I don't know how to judge this situation. Child abuse is not right! Though she is not a baby boy, but she is still your children right? The girl is your own child with your husband!! And what makes me feel anger is that husband do nothing and keep quiet even though he know his wife is physically abusing his own child!! Such an irresponsible daddy!
The child were later send to salvation army, but the child's grandma does not want her to stay away from her own family as she still has parents and grandparents. Hence, she brings her home and stay to gather with this grandchildren.
I really wish that she wont do any physical child abuse such as kicking, twisting her arms or beating her own child. Now, she is staying with another 2 daughters. I hope she can control her depression and would not do this again. Now, her youngest daughter don't even want to call her when she meets her.
Labels: Awareness
Stop Child Abuse! at 21:03
I went KL over the weekend last week. A banner caught my attention while I'm taking the escalator at Fahrenheit 88. It was a banner with a lot celebrities holding a piece of message on their hand. Do you guy noticed it too? It was about CHILD ABUSE.
Do you know what is child abuse? Child abuse can be physically, sexually or emotionally mistreatment to the children. Sometimes people just doing things wrongly and they does not know they are committing an abuse. :( There are four major categories of child abuse which is neglect, physical abuse, psychological/ emotional abuse, and child sexual abuse.
Neglect is where the adult (parents, baby sisters, elders and more) failed to provide various needs such as food, clothing, hygiene, education, medical as the child need it.
Physical abuse is where the adult conducting physical aggression such as kicking, striking, slapping, burning, pulling ears or hair, choking or shaking a child.
Child sexual abuse is another form of child abuse where an adult abuses a child for sexual stimulation. An adult is conducting a child abuse when they force or misleading a child to carry out sexual activities, displaying pornography to a child, actual sexual contact, using them to produce child pornography. Do you all know that all this act will causing depressing or post- traumatic stress disorder to the child? Just like those we see in the HK dramas, some people were depressed in their childhood and they committed crime after they grown up.
Lastly, psychological or emotional abuse can be destruction of personal belongings, excessive criticism, inappropriate or excessive demands, withholding communication and humiliation. This type of abuse may result in abnormal or overly passive behavior.
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Among 4 major types of child abuse, physically abuse is the one i hope most of the parents would aware about it. Sometimes we flips through the news papers, we can see those baby sitters using hot water pouring it over the baby's body or some of them using kicking or even shaking them. T.T How can a baby stand it? Babies were so adorable. How can those baby sitters did that to them? All this can be prevented if people aware on it. If the parent gives more care to their child, then the baby sitters might not have a chance to do so. It will helps in giving the child a healthy environment to grow up. Do you all know that shaking a baby can lead to intracranial pressure, swelling of the brain, diffuse axonal injury, and oxygen deprivation; which leads to patterns such as failure to thrive, vomiting, lethargy, seizures, bulging or tense fontanels, altered breathing, and dilated pupils.
yeah, you might think that not only the baby sitters did those child abuse. For those parents who caused it, I was wondering.. do they ever think that they were once being a child before? Do they ever imagine if their own parents did that to them in the past time? People!! If you aren't a kid lover, please don't give birth. PLEASEEEEE Yeah like the banner on the above, raise your hand and togather create awareness please! Labels: Awareness
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Travel Post
November 2006
